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Figuring Out if She’s Interested or Being Paid to Message You

“Does she really like you?”


Two of the most common dating site scams involve paid professionals in the sex and dating industries trying to make some extra money off of you. Whether it involves the company actually running the dating site hiring someone to pretend to be someone they are not for the sake of driving subscriptions, or an actual woman of the night looking to get some action from unsuspecting guys that don’t realize hookups are not supposed to involve monetary transactions, you have to keep an eye out when searching for the perfect hookup in Regina or anywhere else. When searching online, you can trust the top hookup sites mentioned here: hookupsitereviews.ca. Read the online hookup site reviews carefully and then make a decision. There’s only so much you can do to spot these before they make off with your wallet, but with these tips, you will at least have a better chance than most.

Follow the Money: She Could be a Professional

“She could be scamming you”


The very first thing to keep in mind when avoiding dating site scams is the chance that the woman you’re looking to hook up with is actually a working woman. This is a primary concern not only because it’s going to cost you bank even if you end up turning her down, but also because in most places this is going to run you afoul of the law. For someone just looking to get laid, there’s really no reason to put yourself in that kind of jeopardy. Even if it seems like a legitimate offer, there’s no telling who is actually on the other side of the computer. Don’t be the poor schmuck who gets suckered into paying for a good time, only to find out you’ve walked into a bust.

How do you recognize the professionals from the crowd of women that are there for the same reason as you? Fortunately, this isn’t quite as difficult as it may seem. Remember, any professional isn’t going to want to risk time, energy and the repercussions of getting caught if they don’t have some reasonable expectation of compensation. In other words, she’s going to bring up money before you leave for the meet up. Sometimes it’s pretty straight forward with a stated rate included in her replies. Sometimes, though it’s a more subtle comment such as a reminder that nothing is free that should tip you off. Just remember, if she’s talking about anything other than transportation costs, or saying her taxi’s going to be something exorbitant, her idea of a good night probably includes you as one of her Johns for the evening.

Is it Difficult to Contact Her Outside of the Dating Site?

“If it is, then she may be scamming you for money”


When it comes to dating site scams sanctioned by the businesses themselves, catching on can be a little more difficult. This is primarily because the employees are hired to act like normal people and make small talk that’s designed to keep you interested in a possible relationship. That means they’re going to be as realistic as possible to maintain the ruse for as long as possible. Remember, they’re looking to string you along for your subscription revenue and they probably have a bit of practice going in. That means you’re talking with a real person, which makes them harder to spot than bots or scripts, and they’ve probably been in your position themselves. In other words: they know what to expect and what their expectations would be in this case.

That’s why how you stay in contact is one of the warning flags to look for when talking to someone looking for a date in Regina or anywhere else. When it comes down to simple communication, most everyone is going to start on the website alone, messaging back and forth through profiles and forums, of course. When it comes to actually have a conversation with someone you have an interest in seeing or carrying on some sort of relationship with, however, any reasonable person would generally be okay moving to a different, less restrictive and costly platform. That may start with email, but if she’s still pushing you to contact her through the website even after you’ve moved some correspondence to email, it might be a good time to at least attempt some video chats if not in person meet ups. Most dating sites come with the expectation of the latter happening at some point fairly soon after you hit it off with someone, so a large reluctance to agree to meeting in person can be a red flag for a fake account.

If She Does Agree to Meet Up, Does Something Always Prevent It?

But what if she has been agreeing or even seems eager to meet in person, but something keeps coming up that prevents you from ever seeing each other? If this happens once, it may not mean anything. Plans get changed and a people mess things up all the time. When it starts becoming less of a one-time mess up and more of a clear pattern, however, it may be best to cut things off. Even if it’s just someone who has the worst luck in the world, chances are you would never end up meeting anyway and your attention is best turned elsewhere. A pattern of being unable to meet up in person more likely states that she doesn’t want to meet in person, however, and that’s pretty unlikely for a woman legitimately looking to meet someone online. It’s far more likely it’s a website employee stringing you along so you’ll keep paying their boss the subscription fees. Hey, a job’s a job, but that’s not something you want to date.

Companies Have Already Been Caught Leading People on for Subscriptions

“Steer clear of these scammers”


We know some of this might sound a little far-fetched or like a conspiracy theorist, but the truth is there are a lot of websites that have already been caught and fined for doing exactly this. All it takes is a short web search to bring up dozens of legitimate news stories where a reporter has cracked open these very scams themselves or with the help of an anonymous tip. A word to the wise; most of the people in these jobs weren’t told going in that that was what they were going to be doing for their paycheck. Most are brought through multiple levels of initiation get them comfortable with a steady check and the company itself before this task is ever assigned to them. Because of this, most people don’t feel like they can protest such a thing no matter how irritated they are that the position exists in the first place.

Believe it or not, that mindset is something that can help you out. A lot of times, what you type is a reflection of the mood you’re in regardless of how you’re intending a piece to be taken. Employees pretending to be an interested woman will be no different. In fact, they’ll be pretty dispirited over being a part of a dating site scam, and that can come out in their communications to you. Asking them outright is probably not the best way to go, since if they answer honestly they risk losing their jobs, and if you’re wrong you sound like a tool. Just taking note of word choice should be enough.

Quality or Variety: Large Cam Sites Versus Privately Run Alternatives

“So what will you choose?”


When trying to decide if a cam site that appeals to you is actually real deal, one of the biggest questions that comes up is whether or not the smaller websites typically run by the models themselves are as safe as ones run by larger businesses. This may be somewhat counterintuitive when you consider that people are often wary of porn sites in general. However, while the question of whether your favorite MILF cam sites are legit remains, by and large, a completely valid one, there are some differences between major sites in their privately run alternatives. Sometimes that comes down to their security, and sometimes it comes down to what they offer. Whatever the case may be, only what to expect from both types of sites will help you not only avoid scams, but find the right site for you.

Site Quality and User Experience

“Focus on user experience”


One of the very first things people think of when comparing these two kinds of sites and has less to do with their content and more to do with how they present themselves. On the one hand, you have the appeal of sites which are clean and easy to navigate. On the other hand, the entire porn industry is all but inundated by websites stuffed full of every cam fetish and porn video imaginable, but often laid out in baffling and irritating ways. Is one of these necessarily more common than the others depending on who’s running the show? Not necessarily. Of course, as unhelpful that is to knowing which sites to narrow your search down to, it certainly makes the situation as a whole much better, since it tends to broaden the availability of content overall. What can be said when comparing the two, then?

First, we can absolutely say that most privately run sites, which are generally put together by for the models themselves are going to have less content than those run by larger businesses. This is something based purely on the numbers involved, and less so on the capabilities by the party. In either case, both kinds of MILF cam sites are definitely legit, but the one that is run by the models, or put together by a smaller agency, is simply not going to have as much available as the larger one. This will often show through in how the site itself is designed. While larger companies are going to have more content, and thus often attempt to shove as much is possible onto their main page, for smaller sites this is less of a concern. Smaller sites are generally going to have more attention to aesthetics, and making sure the website appeals to you than trying to show off as much is possible at first glance.

When you compare user experience, the results are fairly even as well. The biggest difference is whether or not you can find websites that focus on this aspect or not. Being able to find those sites is definitely a lot easier with smaller, private affairs than with the big business cam sites, as the latter tends to focus almost exclusively on quantity over quality. Yes, you can definitely find larger sites that focus on user experience and smaller sites that generally suck at it, which is why this category seems to come out roughly even, however, it is far more likely to find the better experience in the smaller sites. That is, of course, provided you can find those sites in the first place. When you are looking for sexy milfs online, you need to make sure that a site is legit. Learn more about live cam sex and how to steer clear of scam sites.

Availability of Discounts

“Who doesn’t enjoy some discount?”


One of the best parts of finding something in larger amounts is the discounts you can usually accrue along with. While cam sites won’t necessarily give you bulk discounts or anything of the like, there are still many ways to save your money while still enjoying yourself on them. One of the best? Going to a discount cam site. There are plenty out there, and while there is certainly some truth to the old adage about getting what you pay for, every model has to start somewhere, and there’s a pretty good chance of finding a good one on one of these sites. In addition, websites that function on variety and quantity are more capable of providing lower credit conversion rates for tipping, among other things.

Of course, models that have more control over their site overall are going to have more control over discounts they can give you, as well. One important thing to keep in mind, however, is that sites with models in direct competition to one another are more likely to keep costs lower overall. Models on these sites also aren’t responsible for a lot of the upkeep costs either, which means they have less they need to make and thus less of a need for higher profit margins. Take your chances where you will, but for the most part you will find lower cost models on sites with lots of them. Again, it’s just a matter of numbers.

Who Has the Best Recording Equipment?

Another thing to keep in mind when comparing these two types of sites is who has the better equipment to give you the best show? The answer might surprise you. While on a startup level the larger business might seem the better place to go to for the type of equipment you need to run a good quality webcam, the fact of the matter is that once an initial cash flow has been established, any legit MILF cam site is going to invest in proper equipment regardless of its size. Additionally, sites run by larger businesses are going to be far more concerned in wringing every possible cent from all of their equipment than the smaller, privately run operations. This is due mainly to the fact that the smaller, more privately run alternatives know that most of their customers arrive through word of mouth and references, which depend solely on them doing a good job and maintaining a solid video stream. Comparatively, larger sites will allocate more money to marketing and the like before it comes to upgrading their equipment, because it work with their bottom line better. In most cases, just getting you to the site benefits them – keeping you around is the second priority for them.

Concerns of Safety and Security

“Try to be safe online”


Finally, we come to the idea of safety and security of your information and your computer while you visit these sites. That this needs to be looked into should come as no surprise. When it really comes down to it, the fact remains that any time you put your information online, you set yourself up for a potential mishap with it. All you can really do is lessen the likelihood of this mishap as much as humanly possible. When it comes to cam sites, the best way to mitigate your risk is to watch your back on your end of the spectrum. Don’t give out information they don’t need to know, and protect your computer with a proper Internet security suite. Beyond that, there is not that much of a difference between the two types of sites in this regard. While the smaller sites definitely have less interest in stealing your information, and less know how in most cases, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re any safer on them than you would be elsewhere.

5 Ways To Prevent Screaming Matches When Discussing Relationship Issues

Every relationship has its own sets of problems. What makes one relationship different from the other is the way people react to these issues. Arguments are normal. In fact, they’re healthy as long as they’re not done very often. The problem comes in when discussions become screaming matches. This is a common dilemma for many couples. They know it’s not going to do them any good, but they can’t seem to put a stop to it. Relationship problems ought to be discussed by the two people involved without screaming at each other. Here are 5 ways to get it done:

1. Make an agreement on how to deal with relationship problems
The two of you should agree that shouting and name calling won’t be part of the relationship. More importantly, there should never be any form of degrading. You can always explain your side in a clam manner. Keep in mind that screaming matches will only worsen the situation and even end up in a failed relationship.
2. Know what caused the misunderstanding

5 Ways To Stop Fights In Relationships

5 Ways To Stop Fights In Relationships

No one’s perfect. It’s a given that couples make mistakes. What needs to be done is making the necessary adjustments after the argument. Then again, there’s no way you can adjust if you don’t know the root cause. So find out what caused the argument. This way, you won’t commit the same mistakes again.
3. Talk, don’t argue
This is as simple as it gets. Screaming matches come from arguments. If you talk and express your concerns, you can stay away from heated arguments. Listen to your partner. You don’t have to agree, but you should let the person know that you respect his or her opinion.
4. Talk about the issue at a later time
By talking about the problem at a later time, both of you will have the chance to calm down and be more open-minded when dealing with the situation. This really helps in correcting the issue without having to raise your voice or scream to your partner.
5. Argue at the right time
Arguing isn’t recommended. But if it can’t be avoided, don’t do it in front of your kids. Don’t argue when one is sober and the other is drunk. Don’t talk about relationship problems when you just got off from a very busy day at work. These are the times when your emotions are at its peak and you won’t hesitate to start screaming.

How rows can SAVE your relationship... and the type of arguments you should avoid to prevent a break-up

How rows can SAVE your relationship… and the type of arguments you should avoid to prevent a break-up

Screaming matches are always preventable. It’s up to the two of you to stay away from it. Keep in mind that any relationship will only work if both parties are interested in making it work. So pay attention to relationship problems and deal with them before they worsen. And when you do, don’t let your emotions get the best of you.